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Free Attachment Style Quiz Template

Free attachment-style quiz — abandonment anxiety and closeness avoidance scored on two axes, with an AI report mapping your relationship pattern.

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Free attachment-style quiz — abandonment anxiety and closeness avoidance scored on two axes, with an AI report mapping your relationship pattern.

Disclaimer: this page and its AI report are for self-reflection and process reference only. They do not constitute medical, psychological, financial, legal or safety advice. Consult a qualified professional when needed.

Methodology: items are a structural adaptation of widely used frameworks, not an official version; scoring is indicative, not diagnostic.

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About this template

Anxious, avoidant, secure, fearful — every classic attachment style is a combination of two scores: anxiety about abandonment and discomfort with closeness. This quiz keeps both axes visible, and the AI report translates the combination into how the pattern shows up in real relationships. Non-blaming language for couples and individual work alike.

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Sample form and AI report preview (fillable once the app is published).

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Sample AI report with scoring visuals and recommendations, printable as a PDF.
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What's Included

The scenarios, style dimensions and plain-language explanation.

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Two-axis scoring

Anxiety and avoidance scored separately, then combined.

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Four-style reading

Where you sit on the classic secure/anxious/avoidant/fearful map.

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AI pattern report

Explains what the style shows up as in real relationships.

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Session prompts

Starters for attachment-focused or couples work.

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How It Works

From copy to an attachment-style readout in four steps.

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Copy the template

Import quiz, scoring and report — free.

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Choose the frame

Adapt wording for individual or partner use.

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Complete privately

About six minutes on any device.

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Read the map

Use the style report to open attachment conversations.

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Who Is This For

Who takes it — individuals, couples or the clinicians guiding them.

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Couples & individual therapists

A shared, non-blaming language for attachment patterns.

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Individuals reviewing relationship patterns

Understand the instinct behind the pattern.

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Workshop leaders

A self-check that frames group discussions on closeness.

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Key Features

What makes this attachment quiz useful beyond a label.

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Sample Questions Inside

The two-axis closeness and avoidance items — the live quiz adds four-style scoring and an AI read of how the pattern plays out.

  1. I am comfortable depending on others and having them depend on me. (1-5)
  2. I worry my partner will not want to stay with me. (1-5)
  3. Relying on someone emotionally feels unsafe to me. (1-5)
  4. I prefer not to share too many details about my life with a partner. (1-5)
  5. It bothers me when a partner wants to be very close. (1-5)
  6. I find it easy to feel close to people. (1-5)
  7. What is hardest for you in a relationship? (open)
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Frequently Asked Questions

Can an online quiz diagnose an attachment disorder?
No — attachment styles are descriptive patterns, not diagnoses, and a quiz captures self-reported tendencies in general terms; a clinician explores the real relational history.
Which two axes actually matter?
Anxiety about abandonment and discomfort with closeness — every classic style is a combination of those two scores, which is why this quiz keeps them visible separately.
Is this the official ECR or Experiences in Close Relationships scale?
No — it uses original wording inspired by the two-axis framing widely used in attachment research; results are indicative.
Is it free to use?
Yes — copy the quiz with scoring and AI report into your FormLM workspace at no cost.
Do styles change over time?
They can — earned security is real; retaking per therapy phase shows movement that single sessions miss.
Can couples each take it?
Yes — pair the reports to discuss differences without either partner being the problem.

Map the pattern, not blame the person

A two-axis attachment quiz with an AI style report — free to copy and share.